Friday, August 24, 2007

The Secrets to Gratifying Sex




Sex seems pretty straight forward right?: Insert tab A into slot B. Repeat and Enjoy. But getting the mechanics right is only a tiny part of the picture. Lucky for us, there are people on it! Learning more about the fine art of copulation and, happily, their findings transform into a more gratifying sex life for you and your partner. Get ready to to put these sensual scientific facts to the test TONIGHT!

You Can Climax in your sleep
This fact should extinguish the debate over the whole sex-starts-in-your-head business: More than 40% of women say they have woken from sleep while experiencing an Orgasm that came from no physical stimulation, according to a survey of more than 2,600.

You Can Guarantee A Good Time
Because of your ever fluctuating hormones, there is actually a specific time in your 28 day cycle when sex may be SUPER satisfying: Hello Ovulation! We humans are wired to want sexual contact midcycle to ensure procreation. This is the time of the month that your levels of testosterone - one of the driving forces behind the libido- are at there peak. You may find that your sexual senses especially your nipples and clitoris practically hum with anticipation. Even better, this spike in testosterone often intensifies orgasms, leading to an earth shattering head to toe climax. We all know that when it comes to the Orgasms the bigger the better!

A Weekly Romp Can Keep You Healthy
Sure sex feels good, but its also good for you! One major benefit appears to be a more regular menstrual Cycle. Research has shown that weekly sex also improves woman's estrogen levels, and increased levels of estrogen is linked to a higher bone density, a healthier cardiovascular system, improved fertility, lower "BAD" cholesterol, higher "GOOD" cholesterol and milder menopause symptoms. Funny enough you get all these benefits even without having experienced an orgasm.

When It Comes To Penis Size, Almost Anything Is Normal
Finding reliable data on the average male penis size can be difficult. But if condom sales are any indication men come in all shapes and sizes. No one size has ever made up more than 5% of sales and there are hundreds of condom sizes ranging from 3" to 10" in length and almost every possible width. Research has shown that custom condoms tend to break less than the one-size-fits-all variety. They cost about the same as your typical condom. Either way, the benefits for women in particular are significant: If your partner is a bit smaller than the average joe, you can get busy without worrying about a breakage accident. And if he is a larger boy, you wont have to worry about slippage or deal with 3 inches of rolled up condom impeding your fun.

Even A Shy Woman Can Fantasize Her Way To More Satisfaction
Half of the enjoyment of sex is derived from the anticipation that something good is going to happen. That excitement starts in your head! An easy way to generate it is to fire up your mental movie projector once and a while. Having a nice, juicy fantasy life actually contributes to healthy sex . Thinking of your own personal fantasy man stimulates the release of dopamine in the brain, which in turn jump starts your romantic thoughts and behaviours. Imagining a scene that may not include your significant other isn't a crime or even something to be ashamed of. Fantasy does not represent a desire for it to be reality! Its a dream, an idea, a way of helping your think tank engage in the moment.

Safe, Effective Sexual Enhancers Exists
Do me a favour google the word libido you will get more hits than you could possibly read, many of them trying to get you to purchase the latest and greatest supplement or potion guaranteeing an amazing sex life. But only a few of them are backed by independent, peer reviewed studies on women. The one I recommend is System JO Clitoral Stimulation Gel, a gel that you apply to the genital area that increases arousal, sensation and pleasure . Comes in Mild , Light and Wild to assure everyone can enjoy maximum pleasure.

You Might Like Porn
Almost 30% of MOD (movie on demand) revenue is generated by adult films, and its highly unlikely that guys are the only ones tuning in. In fact, more than 30 million women visited adult websites in one month alone! Titles I recommend are: Jenna's Provocateur, directed by Jenna Jameson herself, this flick has lots of great clothes and techniques to imitate. Teradise Island has a lot of electrifying guy-girl scenes; and Sultry is packed with a series of sexy vignettes and offers an artsy flair to the porno world.

Sex Can Help You Lose Weight
It might be a tad easier to have a mind blowing orgasm when you are comfortable in your own skin, but the opposite might be your truth: Having great sex can help you get the body you have always wanted. Orgasms activate the production of phenethylamine, a natural amphetamine that suppresses the appetite. Plus, the act itself, especially if your really into can burn up to 200 calories. Combine that with the fact that those with an healthy sex life tend to be more active in general, and you might find that dropping a dress size is easier than you once thought.

The G Spot Serves Your Greater Good
When the G-spot first came to light there was much talk on whether the almond sized pleasure button even existed. Now researchers know that not only does it exist, but that stimulating it actually activates a body wide pain-blocking mechanism. The effect does not last long (approx 8 minutes unless continuously stimulated) but the result is significant enough that its been shown to reduce discomfort associated with arthritis, whiplash, postoperative care and more. And because cervical dilation stimulates the exact same nerve pathways as the G- Spot, scientists think natural vaginal births would be a lot more uncomfortable without this natural analgesic effect. This elusive "spot" is almond shaped and found on the front wall of your vagina and feels harder than the surrounding tissue; you can find it by inserting a finger (palm up)and making a come here gesture. It is a lot easier when you are aroused as it swells. If locating your G is troublesome spring for a angled-tip vibe designed for the task. Check out http://www.cathcacloud.com/ for a G-Spot finder.

He Loves Your Every Scent
No need to fret over finding that perfect sexy perfume to wear on a date. Turns out that pretty much any pleasant odor will increase blood flow and therefore Will get your mans juices flowing! The scent-induced increases in arousal from 2 to 5 percent for cranberry, floral perfumes, and cheese pizza (in that order), to an amazing 40 percent for lavender and pumpkin pie mixed together. Ladies can actually experience reduced vaginal blood flow when exposed to the smells of barbecued meat, cherries, and ...even men's cologne. Meet in the middle and spay a lavender mist on your sheets to help you both get into the mood.
Okay ladies and Gents there you go ten sure fire ways to have a more satisfying, gratifying sex life.. So go now and love each other..
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Referenced from Self Magazine's July 2007 issue

Wednesday, August 8, 2007

Fast Facts

Cleaning and toys:

1) First you need to know what texture or substance your toy is made of.Then you need to learn how to care for that certain type of material and toy in order to properly care for your toys to avoid passing on or getting germs left on the toy that may cause irritation or infection. Therefore proper care for your toy is the best education you can have for prevention.

2) Cleaning your toys before, and after each use helps prevent infection and bacteria to build up on your toy. Some people use a condom on there toy for each use. Once again are greatest friend the CONDOM helps eliminate the chances of infection, including yeast infection, Chlamydia, Herpes and HIV.

3) Learning how to correctly care for your toys (including harnesses) allows your body to avoid getting infections or irritation and a longer lasting use of your toy.All toys can be maintained by using a condom in order to prevent infection and irritation from bacteria that can get trapped on your toy. A condom is always suggested to help keep you and your toys safe from bacteria.Hot Water and an anti-bacterial soap is the best way to clean all toys.

How do I pick the right toy?

There are many things to know and consider before you buy a toy.You may want a toy just for yourself, or you may want to play with others. Is your toy going to be used for your vagina or anus…..or is it a toy for your clitoris.
A vibrating toy: a battery operated or electric toy that comes in many shapes and sizes and various speeds.
A dildo: a non- vibrating object which comes in many shapes and sizes and is usually shaped liked an erect penis.
A dual Toy: a toy with more than one function.
A glass toy: dildos and butt plugs that can retain body heat.
A toy for anal play: plugs or beads or other toys (anal Vibe) with bases.

For your choices of toy always consider looking at the color, style; design. Your toy is your new friend you get to hand pick.If your toy is for penetration, you will need to consider size and shape.When not using your toy you should remove the batteries.

The History Of Pornography



Long, long ago and far, far away....... porn appeared in the early days of human history. Researchers discovered rock paintings demonstrating sex acts between ancient people together with petrogliphs showing people hunting. It is not clear if it was pornorgraphy or not, but these drawings could not be considered erotic as they were done in a primitive manner.To tell the truth, little has changed since then, and people still can not tell the difference between pornography and erotica, to tell what is acceptable for public demonstration and what is not.
Some of the first documented porn pictures were printed in oriental sex manuals, Kama Sutra being the most popular. The Hindu people feared that the paper works would not stand the test of time and so decorated the temples of Kajuharo with bas-reliefs of people having sex.


The word “porn” meaning “indecent pictures” or “depiction of whores” came from Greeks who painted such frescos on the walls of their many brothels and bath houses. The pictures were a wonderful way of advertising for women who sold their love to Greeks for money.Christianity prohibited depicting anything but saints within several centuries, this fact changed neither the quality nor the quantity of sex services. The art of porn flourished in the Renaissance when Rafael’s apprentice Julio Romano quarreled with Pope Clemens VII. In revenge, the artist painted an entire hall in the Vatican with porn frescos. The frescos gave rise to a terrible scandal that spread about the whole of Europe. Before the scandalous frescos were removed some crafty painters made gravures of them. This is how porn spread about Europe, the spreading was even more successful thanks to the technological progress.


At the end of the 18th century France was the leading country regarding the spread of porn pictures. Porn then became an element of playing-cards, posters, post cards and so on. Today, the porn pictures of that time seem to be rather chaste. To many people at the time those pictures were scandalous, and campaigns against porn pictures started in the 19th century. People caught spreading porn were brought to court and were obliged to pay fines. Many writers – Flaubert, Zola and Baudelaire – that are considered classical writers today were at that time brought to court on the charges of spreading elements of "porn" in their works. It was because of the same reason that books by Joyce, Henry Miller and Nabokov’s Lolita were declared as prohibited.


The year of 1972 was a breakthrough for the American cinematography. Producer Gerard Damiano made his film The Deep Throat about a woman complaining to her doctor that she felt no satisfaction when having sex. This doctor explained that woman had their clitoris's in their throat. This film has fifteen particular scenes of oral sex. It took the producer six days to make the film; he and the actors worked for pennies. It made Gerard's whole team very popular. It still holds the world marketing record for its costs to income ratio. That was also the opening of the Golden Era of Porn actively promoted hippies in the 60's and 70's . Pornographers were reputed as dissidents fighting for the freedom of self-expression and helped society become sexually educated. This is one of the few instances when the high aims brought about really high incomes.By the mid-1980s, the Golden Era of Porn came to an close.


The most popular porn stars had appeared in hundreds of porn films or even became porn directors and producers. By the mid-1990s, it was popular to invite fashion models to appear in porn films and use hi-tech equipment while making the films. On the threshold of the millennium a great number of porn films appeared making such films more or less official and consequently boring.


Today, pornography is legalized in almost all countries with the exception of the Muslim ruled regions, Porn is becoming a really respectable business . For over ten years , the Adult Video News magazine presents awards for outsatnding achievements in the porn industry. The ceremony takes place in Las Vegas every year between The Golden Globes and The Oscars.
Pornography inevitably wins its part in our everyday lives. Many companies have already circulated an official prohibition of surfing porn web sites at the office. Ten-year-old children are no longer interested in sex scenes on TV and switch channels for cartoons. Does our life begin to look more like pornography?

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The History Of Sex Toys


History of sextoys

1869 - Debut of the first vibrator. Developed by an American physician, George Taylor, M.D., it was a large, cumbersome, steam-powered apparatus. Taylor recommended it for treatment of an illness known at the time as "female hysteria." Hysteria, from the Greek for "suffering uterus," involved anxiety, irritability, sexual fantasies, "pelvic heaviness" and "excessive" vaginal lubrication -- in other words, sexual arousal. However, since it was the Victorian era, women were not considered to be at all sexual and it was therefore deemed a disease. Physicians of that era treated hysteria by massaging sufferers' vulvas until they experienced dramatic relief through "paroxysm" (orgasm). Unfortunately, hysteria was a recurrent condition and repeated treatment was often necessary. Taylor touted his steam-driven massage device as speeding treatment while reducing physician fatigue.

1890 - Invention of the motion picture. Almost immediately after movies appeared, early filmmakers began producing pornography, some of which featured women playing with vibrators and dildos, including strap-ons.

1899 - Publication of America's first advertisement for a home electric vibrator, the Vibratile, in McClure's magazine -- as a cure for headache, wrinkles, and "neuralgia," or nerve pain, a term that included hysteria.

1900- 1920 - Popularization of the home vibrator. As electricity became widely available around the U.S., plug-in home vibrators were one of the first electrified home appliances. Marketed to women as health and relaxation aids, vibrator advertising copy was filled with double-entendres, for example, "all the pleasure of youth ... will throb within you." They were advertised in many consumer magazines, including Needlecraft, Home Needlework Journal and Woman's Home Companion, and even sold in the Sears & Roebuck catalogue as an "aid every woman appreciates."

1921- The first vibrator advertisement aimed at men. Published in a 1921 issue of Heart's magazine, it exhorted men to buy vibrators for their wives as Christmas gifts to keep them "young and pretty" and free from the scourge of hysteria.

1930 - Vibrator advertisements disappear from magazines and catalogues. As more pornographic films showed women using vibrators for sexual self-stimulation, it became impossible for manufacturers to defend the polite fiction that they were simply innocent "massagers." Self-appointed guardians of rectitude branded them immoral, and very quickly, vibrators virtually disappeared.

1965 - Re-emergence of the vibrator. You just can't keep a good sex toy down.

1998 - The Rabbit vibrator makes an appearance on HBO's multi-award winning show, "Sex and the City®" as the once timid character Charlotte's new best friend. After the episode aired, demand for the toy skyrocketed.


The rest is as they say... History


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